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    • #54357

      It all started with simple, harmless bets that I could very well afford. I work at normal work in the field of IT.
      But something goes wrong when i start to take debts and lose everything on Bets.
      First at all it was my first bet of 400$ in micro-services. I was losing everything but i was know that my salary will come soon.
      Btw, my salary was in around 1000$ monthly and it was more than enough for my comfortable living.
      But Month ago, something happend to me. I was sitting in the house, drinking beer and think like, why cant i win Jackpoot and change my life?
      I was start to play at Casino with big jackpoots. First at all, i was losing all my salary and money that i safe for my parrents.
      Oh, yes, my Mother need money for heart operation soon, and she think that i could help her (UH, YE, I AM FULL DEAD MAN).
      After part of losing my money, i was trying to back money that i spend from my salary. And what do you think i do? Ye.
      I was going imidiatly to the bank and take the debt. Yes, i am losing this debt also (3000$), well, the story doesnt finished with that.
      I was going online to search “online debts” from strange peoples and websites, and i take around 1500$ in micro-services and individual persons.
      Well, to spend all 4000-5000$ i waste around 2 days. After that, i am fully losing my mind and stop doing any job.
      I was fired from work, saddened, and started drinking whole month.
      Today is 02.18, and everyday i got around 10000 calls about my debts that i needed to pay.
      I live in a rented apartment, but I am registered with my parents, guess what is happening?
      Yes, som strange peoples call and told me that my parrents house will be moved due to my debts. They still dont know anything, and i have around 2 days.
      Well, i am fully dead right now, i was reading every-every story on that forum and trying to understand what should i do now, how can i save my parrents from this trash,
      How can i be that stupid, most stupid guy in the world. I dont have idea how to pay and what should i do now.
      Nobody knows, but seems like tomorrow is Day X for my life. For life that i am fully destroyed. Sad. Very sad. Thanks. S/S.

    • #54358

      Such an difficult story and one that people should read to see what gambling can do to a life. Sellsatt – I don’t know which country you are in, but I would try and get advice locally as soon as possible. Unless you had somehow used your parent’s house to obtain credit – it shouldn’t be taken away from them.

      I also think that you should be the one to tell your parents what is happening. It is not right that they should find this out when the debtors or bailiffs come knocking at the door.

      Please get help and support for yourself and your parents as soon as you can. I wish you well.

    • #54359

      Hello Sellsatt and thanks for starting a thread in the Gambling Therapy forums

      Here at Gambling Therapy we pride ourselves on being a caring and diverse online community who can help and support you with the difficulties you’re currently facing. We understand that this might be a tough time for you, particularly if you’re new to recovery, so come here as often as you need to and participate in the forums, access online groups and connect to the live advice helpline if you need one to one support. We’re in this together!

      Here on the forum you can share your experiences in a safe, supportive and accepting environment. The beauty of writing it all down is that you can take your time and you will be creating a record of your progress that you can look back on if it ever feels like you’re not moving forward. So, share as much or as little as you like but do try to stick to keeping just one thread in this forum so people know where to find you if they want to be updated on your progress or share something with you.

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      And on that note….

      I’m going to hand you over to our community because I’m sure they will have some words of wisdom for you 🙂

      Take care

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    • #54360

      The hardest stage in my life has come. I made all attempts to repay loans, but alas, I could not do it completely. I sold all the equipment, all the gold, and my lovely iphone that i work for around 3 months. I Pay around 3000$ (well, for our country Ukraine its like ~16month’s salary) And i need to pay 3000$ more. Well, what i can say, i feel better for like 0.00001% because i was able to pay half of the money that i rent. But, the problems still up. I have monstrously high interest for the loan that I signed in the contract. That means everyday it is around 30$. So in the end of the March ill be need to pay 4000$ instead of 3000$. Amazing. I had strange thoughts about my life. But all of them instantly faded out because of the realization that something would not happen to me, my parents will have to pay for everything, who I love so dearly and whom I summed up until the end of their days I know that here we talk more about problems, but given the hopelessness of my situation and the criticality that lasts for hours,. I have a fairly good reputation, I have a project in IT that makes me normal money, But endless calls, sleepless nights, endless stress does not allow me to exist normally. I know that the essence of my request is useless, no one on the Internet trusts anyone, and I can’t imagine how you can trust a person with problems like ours, but still, I just don’t have anyone to contact, I don’t have anything else. I can design you a site, help in promoting the site (seo), fix any problem on the site, connect people to improve your project. I have a good reputation on Internet, i have alot of info about myself that can easily find in google. I know that my text is just a line of despair, a man who destroyed himself, but it is possible that good exists in this world and it returns. Earlier, I always helped the orphanage, listed deductions through streams, made donations to extinguish the fire, maybe one of those present did the same. For everyone else who continues to bet, I say no, I ask – stop. You will never earn on your bets in your life. In the short run, you can win several bets, maybe 10 bets. But in the end, you all lose. Think of your loved ones, think of those you love. Think about what it might lead to. Spend your life wisely

    • #54361

      Sad Story. Not sure I understand how your situation is but it Sounds difficult. Can you Find a way out of this? There must be a way to recover from your situation and slowly get back to life.

      Wish you all the best. Not sure I would dare to trust a stranger as you said but anyway I lost all my money – I can’t help.

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