20 June 2022 at 7:04 pm #157650marek86Participant
Hrávam a stavkujem online .Ani nie veľké sumy ale dokázal som minút aj 300€ za mesiac čo je pol zárobku za mesiac.Ked že mám z manželkou detí je to dosť.Ale k veci môj problém je ten že som chcel vyhrať aj menšiu sumu aby som prilepšil do rozpočtu ale pravda je iná….skorej som znížil rozpočet keďže chýbajú eú.hravam raz ,dva krát či 3krat za mesiac a nedokážem to ovládať.Ten pocit zúfalstva keď chcete silou mocou vyhrať a nedarí sa vám.Potom keď prehrám tak musím klamať ľuďom na ktorých mi záleží, bývam podráždení potom a neplnit si finančné povinností.Manzelke som dal bankomatovú kartu a aj app banky v mobile idem inštalovať aby som cez internet si nedobijal hráčske manželka mínus neverí a chce sa rozviesť s to má ešte viacej posúva do depresií.Snazim sa prestať ale je to ťažké jak som nasebe spozoroval.poradte mi.
20 June 2022 at 7:06 pm #157653charlesModerator
Hello and thanks for starting a thread in the Gambling Therapy forums. By posting to the forums you’re allowing the diverse and caring Gambling Therapy community to help support you through the difficulties you’re facing.
This may well be a tough time for you – particularly if you’re new to recovery, so we encourage you to post here as often as you need to, as well as making use of the online groups and the live advice helpline if you’d like some one-to-one support. We’re all in this together! If you’re a new member, you are warmly invited to join Charles in one of the New Members Practical Advice groups (Mondays at 21:00 UK Time and Thursdays at 19:00 UK Time).
The forum is a great place to share your experiences in a safe, supportive and accepting environment. By writing it all down you can start to build a record of your progress that you can look back on – particularly useful if you’re ever feeling stuck. Share as much or as little as you like – but you’re encouraged to stick to keeping to just one thread in this forum – so people know where to find you to check in on your progress or to share something with you.
The Gambling Therapy staff team don’t generally post to the forums as it is a peer support area of the site – so we’ll hand you over to the community from here.
The Gambling Therapy Team
20 June 2022 at 7:13 pm #157654charlesModerator
Well done on looking for help. You are not alone with this problem. Read the other stories here; you will read a lot that you will relate to. You will also see the success stories and the sorts of things that are helping others stop gambling. You can apply them to your own situation.
You are gambling online, get yourself excluded from your usual sites. Then you can install a blocker on your devices which will stop you signing up at others. Here is a link to details of a few blockers. https://www.gamblingtherapy.org/information/how-do-i-block-gambling-sites/
You wife could help with one of the otehr barriers you will read about – limit your easy access to funds so that you can’t gamble instantly on an urge.
There is a lot of support around these days – this link might help find a Gamblers Anonymous meeting close to you; just click on your country. https://www.gamblersanonymous.org/ga/addresses?page=1
Keep posting and let us know the positive steps that you are taking.
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