Hi Eli,
Upgrading the site might happen, watch this space. We are a charity though with limited funding, these things take time.
The important thing for those using this site though isn’t what it looks like but the support that is offered. The advice that is given. Then their recovery depends on the actions they choose to take or choose not to take.
We have forums, groups, one to one helpline, an App. There is also a lot of other help out there which we have spoken about before.
When it comes to your encrypted stuff you have previously asked people to contact you via these. As such I or one of my colleagues is always going to have to delete these encrypted messages. This goes against the terms and conditions here so I would ask you not to keep repeating. If you want to talk to other compulsive gamblers then there are a lot of ways to do so. Again, ways we have previously discussed.