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    • #25325
      kensakus
      Participant

      I have lost over USD 500,000 since 2002.
      I was used to be a consultant of major firm and worked very hard every days. For reason of hard to take a relaxation times . I started online gamble ,especially black jack and roullet and losting money as times go by.
      I was getting loosing money and keeping bad feelings I began to be taken care of pathological gambling, bui it does not work to Me.
      At last I lost jobs before 5 years ago.
      My finance should be under control of attorney at law, and I receives money every month . I recently have difficulty of managing money . After consideration , I have counseling by mental hospital again.

      I have self excluded from all casino registered and potential parties.

      I am afraid if I could progress care and recover my life.

      Thank you for taking time and reading

    • #25326
      kensakus
      Participant

      Please tell me comment and same story.

    • #25327
      monique
      Participant

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      Hello and thanks for starting a thread in the Gambling Therapy forums

      Here at Gambling Therapy we pride ourselves on being a caring and diverse online community who can help and support you with the difficulties you’re currently facing. We understand that this might be a tough time for you, particularly if you’re new to recovery, so come here as often as you need to and participate in the forums, access online groups and connect to the live advice helpline if you need one to one support. We’re in this together!

      Here on the forum you can share your experiences in a safe, supportive and accepting environment. The beauty of writing it all down is that you can take your time and you will be creating a record of your progress that you can look back on if it ever feels like you’re not moving forward. So, share as much or as little as you like but do try to stick to keeping just one thread in this forum so people know where to find you if they want to be updated on your progress or share something with you.

      And on that note….

      I’m going to hand you over to our community because I’m sure they will have some words of wisdom for you 🙂

      Take care

      The Gambling Therapy Team


      PS: Let me just remind you to take a look at our
      privacy policy and terms and conditions so you know how it all works!

    • #25328
      monique
      Participant

      Hello Kensakus.
      You have taken a big step writing on this Forum and I hope you will soon find that other people will share their stories with you, as you request. I am a volunteer member of the Gambling Therapy Team. I have never been a gambler, but my son is a compulsive gambler and I have learned a lot through trying to understand the effects of this. I have talked with other family members and also gamblers, working to live in recovery. I am also a qualified therapist.

      I can see from your post that you have had a stressful working life and then gambling caused more stress and problems for you, in terms of your career and your personal life and health. But it also looks like you have got some support in place and barriers to ensure that you cannot easily return to gambling. I hope these measures help you feel a bit safer and able to work on a sustained recovery.

      Many people on this site find it very supportive to write regularly about their struggles, their progress and also their ‘failures’. You may also find it useful to have a real-time conversation with someone on the Helpline and in the Support Groups. If you click on Support Groups at the top of this page, you will find all the times and types of groups are listed. You then need to check what is the equivalent time in your country to make sure you can join in at the right time.

      I wish you well on this part of your journey.

      Monique

    • #25329
      charles
      Moderator

      Hello Kensakus and welcome to the group. I am sure you are reading stories similar to your own on the other threads here in the forum. You will also be reading the success stories – what are they doing that you could apply to your own situation?

      The most important thing for any of us ti to is to use the support that we have available,; if we could do it on our oen then we wouldn’t be here in the first place!

      Keep posting here, keep up your counselling, maybe check out GA meetings in your area. Keep posting and let us know about the positive steps you are taking.

    • #25330
      kensakus
      Participant

      I feel difficulty of stoping gambling.
      I accessed to online casinos that are not excluded and played games due to invitation email.
      This issue is caused by failor of full exclusion.
      Even though my financial is under control by a attorney at laws
      I decepted him, and get money for gambling.
      I also begin to take a care of bipolar disorder in addition to pathological gambling.

      If any one knows how to exclude from potential casinos ,
      pLease let me known.

      Regards,

    • #25331
      charles
      Moderator

      Hi again Kensakus,

      Keep reading the other stories here and you will soon see things that you could apply to your own situation. How about installing a blocker on your PC? That will stop you visiting any gambling site. GamBlock https://www.gamblingtherapy.org/gamblock is one site that provides such blockers though of course there are others as well.

      What other positive steps have you taken since you last posted? Have you told your attorney how you deceived him? Doing that will make you less abel to do it again. How about GA meetings?

      We put a lot of effort into our gambling, try and put similar effort into doing things to help your recovery.

      Keep posting and let us know the positive steps you are taking.

    • #25332
      kensakus
      Participant

      Dear charles,

      Thank you for you information and advice.

      The medicin for bipolar disorder getting work and my mood is getting stable. My Medical Doctor said that I should reconsider my past gambling issue in stable mood and it works for recovery from pahological and compulsive gambling.
      I can successfully instal betfilter trial version and confirm it works effectively.

      I joined GA meeing held near my redidence.
      I could tell my story enough time because the meeting scale is small.
      I met compulsive gambler (Japanese Pachinko) with alcoholic addiction who sold one of his kidney and now a street people. And I also heered other person stories.
      I learned that compulsive gamblers are struggle in stopping gambling.
      Telling my story in voice makes me aware of my gambling issue.

      I will join next GA and tell my story and hear oher persons stories.

      I should have not got a maney USD3000 from my attorney wiht reporting fraud expense projection…

      Regards,

      Kensakus

    • #25333
      charles
      Moderator

      Hi Kensakus,

      Well done on the steps you have taken. Keep up your meetings and keep posting. One day at a time is all any of us need to do.

    • #25334
      kensakus
      Participant

      Hello,

      I have purchaed betfilter and installed it today.
      I can confirm that it works strongly and can not to be unintall for 2years.
      I fee good l that I am released from one of anxicious of cumpulsive gambling. I am in the mood of having well sleep tonight.

      I am to join GA near my nesidense on next Sunday morning.
      I am goining to tell my story and have advice of refraining frrom other gambling if possible.
      As you know, there is many chance to have gambling due to Japanese culture. Many of those are actually illeagal, especially Pachinko that is provided at some online casino.
      I have a anxicious that I get in touch with another gambling ,
      such as majong with origine in Chaina.Majong is a kind of skill game and champion leagues as a simply skill hoby are held in Japan .However,there are many Majong salon at which anyone can join by one person and bet illeagally.
      I have experience that I have lost about USD 50000 in my total life time. The part of money that I have lost is about 10% for all my gambling lost, but lost amount is a large for me at present , and also got damage of loosing time.
      I hope that I could exclude myself from majong salons….

      Regards,

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