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  • #2516
    sunny82
    Participant

    I see that cycle now. Wow, that is powerful, I am in it not realizing it. I don’t know how to become estranged from my CG and get out of my cycle.

    #2517
    velvet
    Moderator

    For BV
    As promised
    Speak soon

    #2518
    velvet
    Moderator

    for Clare

    #2519
    velvet
    Moderator

    for JLF

    #2520
    Bara29
    Participant

    This is like reading my husbands diary, could not be more spot on. The question is how do I, the non CG break the cycle?

    #2521
    velvet
    Moderator

    for Ngill

    #2522
    velvet
    Moderator

    For Momof2

    Hope this helps

    V

    #2523
    velvet
    Moderator

    For August

    Because you are not alone

    #2524
    velvet
    Moderator

    For Hesdoingitagain

    #2525
    velvet
    Moderator

    Hi Horsegirl

    I think this will resonate with you

    Velvet

    #2526
    velvet
    Moderator

    For Miss T
    You are right when you say that you need support for you. sometimes it helps to know a bit about what happens to you and your b/f when you are caught up in the whirlwind of an addiction

    Meanwhile, have a look at some of the other member’s threads – you are not alone.

    Velvet

    #68603
    velvet
    Moderator

    For Yeep because I care

    #76142
    panterix
    Participant

    Cycles, cycles….
    I even drew them for myself to have a clearer overview. I was aware that we are running in cycles, but I wasn able to sketche them as accurately.
    I used to think that “every time I get on my feet I get punched in the stomach by another gamble”. That’d be phase e).
    But, if I broke my cycle would that really impact my CG to break his? Ie to stop his addiction? Or I could just (!) stop hurting myself?

    #77131
    velvet
    Moderator

    Hi KO

    I Hope this helps

    #78384
    velvet
    Moderator

    For Darija – you have done well sharing

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