My spouse has increased his gambling over the past two years and their has been an eratic change in his personality. He can’t keep a job and continues to raid whatever money we might have. Over the past 6 months his casino activity has lessened now it is only once a month.
He had done so well this past month but last night he went again and I found out by accident. When I confronted him he was mad at me for what he calls checking up on him.
I told him that his action sshow he doesn’t care about himself or others. He said the opposite his true that he doesn’t know what else to do and is trying.
I’m tired but I can’t seem to enforce any boundary with him.
What should be my next step?