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  • in reply to: Feel like my mind and my heart are going to explode. #1267
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    Thanks shelly5 and I’m feeling your pain too I really hope you find peace of mind soon xx And thankyou madge456 for your kind words and also hope you find peace of mind. It helps so much for the first time ever for me to really open up and write down every thing I have on this forum. With love and thanks for all your kind thoughts and words xxTake one day at a time.

    in reply to: Feel like my mind and my heart are going to explode. #1266
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    Thanks shelly5 and I’m feeling your pain too I really hope you find peace of mind soon xx And thankyou madge456 for your kind words and also hope you find peace of mind. It helps so much for the first time ever for me to really open up and write down every thing I have on this forum. With love and thanks for all your kind thoughts and words xxTake one day at a time.

    in reply to: Feel like my mind and my heart are going to explode. #1263
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    Thankyou shelly5 I really can not believe ive let it happen again. I know the pattern I know i’m going to get hurt yet when he comes home we don’t even discuss the issue. I just feel relieved that he is safe , then in a week or two I bring it up, yes IT the dreaded why have you done it again and once again I get the answer ” if you made me happy and stopped going on I woulden’t gamble” . All his family have known even before I met him 18 years ago I have asked them to help me in the passed with the reply No . So he has no family or friends only me and my family!!!! But now my family are getting annoyed with me and say he is making a fool of me. Which I know they are right, I really need to be strong! I have felt a bit stronger today and realised I have given my all and helped every way possible. It is up to him but passed experience when I stay strong he just moves on to another woman moves in with her. When he realises he loves me he comes home and I am none the wiser about the other woman until months later. By that time iv’e grown to fall back in love with him and tell myself that we were split up when he moved on to his other woman. So as you can imagine now it’s been 6 days since he’s left it’s not .only the thought he has blown all our money, it’s the thought he is charming another woman and blaming me once again. I am sorry for the rant, and sincerely want to thank you for taking the time to respond to my post.Take one day at a time.

    in reply to: Finally, it’s over #1462
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    Dear Waikanae I have just joined this site as I am struggling once again, after my partner of 18 years caused a row 6 days ago and emptied the bank account just so he could leave to gamble every penny away. I haven’t heard from him since. I sit here with dread and worry as I know from past experience he will be back when every penny has gone. I wish I was as brave as you to end this realationship once and for all. My head is telling me excactly what to do. But my heart is still holding on to the man I fell in love with, hoping and praying he will change. I wish you luck and admirer your corages decision. It really helps me reading such success stories.Take one day at a time.

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