Hi Kurt, well done on looking for help.
When you spoke to Gamcare did you ask them about the counselling they give?
There is a lot of help here in the UK, Gamcare, here, Gamblers Anonymous, counselling and more.
I am sure you will be reading the other stories here? You will see the success stories – what has worked for others that you can apply to your own situation?
Where do you gambler? get yourself barred? Accountability helps – is there someone you trust who could help with that?
Keep posting, hopefully see you in a group here soon as well.