[CraigMac6]

Hello all,

I hope you are doing well today. I have been here more times than I care to admit but I am truly ready to change my life. I have a lot of things going for me (postive stuff) yet my gambling addiction is really hindering me (and my family) from a truly beautiful life. I will never reach my full potential if I allow gambling to be in my life. Like all addicts, gambling completely controls me. My every move. My every decision. Everything. I know I am such a better person without gambling in my life but it seems to always rear its ugly head back into my life somehow, some way.
My gambling of choice is sports wagering. I will wager on anything at any time. Its really unhealthy and its to the point where I already know I am going to lose all of my money but that still doesnt stop me.
I’m to the point where I know I need help and I know I need to make changes in my life because this is not the person I want to be. I dont want to be glued to my phone, refreshing scores every minute of the day. I dont want to be that guy who doesnt take care of his family because his addiction is taking all of the money, my time, my energy and my spirit.
Thank you for reading. I know this forum will be of great help as I naviagate through this journey of a better life. Have a great day. I will not gamble today!

[iamhere]

Hi Craigmac6,

„I will never reach my full potential if I allow gambling to be in my life” quote of the day for sure.

I guess the question is, what blocks will you put into place to keep this momentum?

Thanks for posting! I’m new to the site and I’ve also found it quite helpful! 😊

[CraigMac6]

Hello all,

Thank you iamhere for your post. You ask a very good question and the truth is, I’m not sure at this moment. I put blocks on my phone in the past but I always found a way to still gamble (using my computer- i couldnt find any blocks for this google chromebook i use). I think it might be the case with most of us but whatever block we have in place is a good tool but if we make that decision to gamble we will find a way. Instead I am going to focus on all the positive aspects of being free from gambling brings to my life. I am going to remember how gambling impacts my life in a negative way. I’m going to remember all the tough times that have been brought on myself and my family are mostly directly related to gambling. I know this is going to be very hard, but I’m in a place right now where I know that this is exactly what I need. I had one of my best days in a long time yesterday and it was directly a result of not gambling. I’m going to do it again today. Thanks again, iamhere. One day at at time!

[iamhere]

I’m glad you had a good day! It’s a good reminder that life has purpose.. and what gambling can take away.

Have you told your family about your gambling?

[CraigMac6]

Here i am day 3. Still ready to take on the day without gambling. The more and more I think about my life, the more and more i realize it really impacted me negatively more so than I thought. Very recently i was to the point of gambling was the only objective of the day. I rarely accomplished much. My mood changed like a light switch depending upon the outcome of a game. I’m grateful for today and I’m grateful for the opportunity to make a change. Life is really short and I know when my time is up, I would have so many regrets if i lived my life with this addiction hindering me from my goals and dreams.
Hello iamhere, yes my families knows of my struggles. Have a great day all!

[CraigMac6]

Here I am. Day 4. Day 4 was a little
Tougher due to my job having me on the road for hours on end. Normally that would be my time to place multiple wagers while not paying attention to the road. Very stupid decision to be honest. Head in my phone while driving on the interstate at 70 mph while watching the scores of a tennis match. I’m lucky nothing ever came of those terrible decisions. I made it all day without placing a wager, mostly because I already know the outcome. My money gone! I’ll see y’all tomorrow for another day of no gambling!

[CraigMac6]

Hello,

I hope everyone is doing well. I check in today and day seven without gambling and it has been a very productive week. The last two days have been very busy as I moved my daughter into college to start a freshman year, which is really exciting and to be able to do that without Worrying about a sporting event or a wager was absolutely incredible. Yesterday I had a long drive for work and normally I spend the entire trip gambling on a tennis match per se. But yesterday I was able to do the entire trip without even thinking about placing a wager Again and incredible feeling at a big step to my journey to regain my freedom. I hope all of you are doing well. Well, this is definitely not easy and I know their challenging days very soon. I do feel good that I’ve made it this far have a great day and I’ll be checking in tomorrow.

[CraigMac6]

Day 8 and things are going well. I know in the past when I would try to quit gambling. I would always have regrets that I didn’t do it earlier. and I believe that regret sometimes hindered me from moving forward with my quit of gambling. This time feels different mean I have it all figured out. But I have a deep sense within myself that I’m just so tired of losing money losing time losing myself in the whole process and I can’t change the past, but I can make sure Tomorrow is better than today. There’s only one way for me to be my best person. That’s not gamble. It’s been a nice eight days. I’ve passed a lot of mile markers. About 15 hours. The last two days were in the past I would gamble those 15 hours. I look forward to continuing this journey

[kin]

Hi CraigMac6,

I would like to take this opportunity to praise you for your courage and strength because every single time you slip, you did not stay down, you have climb back up and continue your journey in recovery.

• Acest răspuns a fost modificat acum 3 luni, 2 săptămâni de către kin.

[CraigMac6]

Thank you for your kind words Kin. I have no idea what tomorrow holds. But I do know the more I gambled the more I became someone I did not want to be. And I believe I got to point my life for I want to be able to do the things and achieve goals that I have for myself, and for my family and gambling was really truly holding me back. Not only losing money, but also all the time Would cause me to be depressed after a loss or on cloud nine after a win. One of the turning points for me is even when I won. I never saw that money because I didn’t have the discipline to quit playing more more until it was gone. When you really sit back and think about it, what’s the point of putting all that time and energy into something when you know it’s a losing proposition it really makes no sense. Like I said, I don’t have this figured out. Tomorrow Maybe a failure or it might be successful. I’m not sure but I’m really just trying to stay in the moment and remember if my and the things that I want to achieve and for that today, I make a promise to you and to myself That I will not gamble !
Have a great day!

[CraigMac6]

Hello,

I’m using voice to text so some of the wording might be a little difficult to understand. However, today is a big day for me because it is payday normally on payday the very first thing that I do is make sure my online gambling account is funded with a couple hundred dollars. Usually that couple hundred dollars has lost within the first hour and then I put more in and I put more in instead I woke up this morning, and I started to focus on my bills and started to pay off the debt that I have encouraged since well, the last 15 years of my life. I urge to gamble and add money to my account in my mind. I just keep replaying how even if I win I lose because I never take out the money and the time in the energy that I devote to watching the game or checking the score is not worth continuously losing my money over. I’ve had a good last couple days really busy with work a lot of driving but it’s been a lot of rewards as well knowing that I can get through certain times without having to place a wager I can drive without having to check scores and I can live my life without gambling and really be a better father husband I just wanted to check. I hope everyone is doing well and remember keep fighting the good fight.

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