(((Carole))) think back to how often you were gambling before and think how many ***** you gamble now!!! Now don’t you think you have come a long way with that. Look where you are living now and starting to build your own life. I feel that Danny is being quite reasonable with you by paying your bills until you get a job. That must really help take some pressure off your shoulders. All the things you are dealing with at the same time are all the top stressors, but you are dealing with them. I believe that anyone would be overwhelmed, but you are carving out your new life and you will get there one step at a time. You have removed one stress and that is living with Danny as now you don’t need to worry about what you were supposed to get done before he came back from work. I would imagine that going to your own space that you are feeling relaxed when you are there. I am so glad that you are planning activities to do in the evenings in the fall. I am also glad that you are getting support to help with the cg. Now do you believe that you have come a long way. You are a work in progress and looking after your *****. WTG (((Carole))) so proud of you.One day at a time my sweet lord…
