Hi Kathryn
When I first went into recovery, I was jumping at every chance… Decisions to me were difficult to make, one because I have perfectionism traits, but gambling also had played a great role of scrambling my thoughts… & yep Gamblers don’t like change
I was given this tool as a way of thinking how to make decisions… it may or may not help, it’s simply 4 questions that revolve around one question.. So in your case they would be
· What are the Pro’s of taking this job
· What are the Con’s of taking this job
· What are the Pro’s of NOT taking this job
· What are the Con’s of NOT taking this job
I can remember thinking so clearly this was rubbish, now I use this quiet a bit in various situations if I’m unsure of a situations it just becomes a natural reaction to how I make decisions
As of yet it hasn’t let me down, I just hope you find it useful… But above all Kathryn and I’m sure you’ve heard this elsewhere.. YOU have to do what is right by YOU
Best Wishes
Grant
