Bettie I feel for you and wish you better days soon. I can relate though I had a customer in a few days ago and (he was wasted) come from another bar and wanted me to help him get a cheap rate in the hotel,Which i did afterall we know each other over 10 years. Anyway in his drunken stuper he says I don’t like your hair like that it makes you look old. Well i was not impressed and felt awful especially because the hair was not cooperating at all that day and I just said to hell with it and went to work. So having him say that of course made me feel ugly. And I am far from ugly this i know and looking at him who is definetly not all that anyway had some nerve. but I didn’t let it pass since he insisted on hanging around even though i told him a number of times he should just go to bed. Anyway I told him I didn`t recall asking him for his opinion when he says are you mad!!!!! jerk…. So I told my co workers and that helped to unload. So the weekend passes and i go into the office at work and run into a x manager from 20 years ago and he says Wow you look the same as you did 20 years ago you look great Lol so just when you think someone can make you feel sh… there will always be someone waiting to make you feel good. I realize I need to focus on that feedback and give the negative a swift kick in the ass and move on. there will always be people around who want to rain on our parade to hell with them Bettie. You are doing so well and they don`t even have a clue and if they don`t support you move on my friendG Stay focused on recovery and maybe we can catch up on weekend chat
