I’ve talked to many people over the time, about what matters at the end of life.
My big impression was, that only one thing really counts-
How much time you live and act in love, to yourself and others.
When people die, theire only wish is, to come in peace to family and friends. They dont want to see a Photo of theire beautiful house or car, just talk to theire loved one’s when there was a conflicted relationship, without contact or problems they couldnt get over during lifetime.
Judging others might come from a inner need to judge yourself. I’ve learnd from my life, that all i notice outside is connected to my inside. Wish you the best 😊